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She had read books on women's sexuality -- Barbach, Tisdale, Jong, Hite and Nin -- but each held only a small piece of the puzzle.Not one of these authors could tell her as much about sexuality as her own inner life did.
It takes a woman about a thousand words and a condom to get laid on Craigslist.But for a woman to be laid properly -- by a passionate lover who knows what he's doing -- well, that's a whole different ball game.We are both middle-aged women who have spent the past 11 months sleeping around Craigslist.At an age when most women were sending their firstborns off to college, we found ourselves -- through chance and circumstance -- single, tumescent and ripe for adventures.It was a virtually sexless union for 10 years before a therapist helped her come to her senses and move on.Lily never married and spent most of her life caring for an ill parent who died recently.
So she lost 40 pounds and decided she would make up for lost time.
Anna Reed is a 50-year-old who, as a young woman, had been raped and pressured into sex during the so-called sexual revolution.
Those adventures have spanned 10 counties and four states and involved roughly 45,000 e-mailed words, 27 phone calls, 36 face-to-face initial dates and 13 actual lovers -- and re-aggravated our carpal tunnel syndrome from all the typing.
Years before embarking on Craigslist, both of us had experienced sexual abandonment.
We were both hungry for intimacy and physical touch after years of wandering in the desert. Lily Penza, 46, had been overweight since her teens and suffered from dangerously low self-esteem.
At age 28, she moved in with the first man who looked her way.